"Good god, I've seen fannish groups that operate like cults, with a charismatic leader and a bevy of devoted, close-knit fans who will go after anyone who dares say anything against their 'leader'."

Same here, man, same here. Possibly even the same group, but in any case...

I don't think I've ever been in situations as serious as yours, but I can still see where you're coming from. I'm just glad to hear that damned has been a more or less friendly environment for you and your RPing. ♥ I haven't had any problems, either, so I guess we've got a good group of people. :3 It might also have to do with the fact that we're big on communication.