I don't know if I've recomended Tad Williams to you yet, but if I haven't try finding his Memory, Sorrow, and Throne series. It's a slow start, but very good. Then there's Robert B. Parker's novels, detective stories set in the 70's in Boston. They're light and fun, and good mysteries.
John Irving is also good. His stuff deals with sexuality more than gender, and humanness in general. I think he might be your kinda author, but I'm not sure if you ever read anything by him. I'd say read "A Prayer for Owen Meany," "The World According to Garp," and "The Cider House Rules." Those are the ones I know for sure are good.
Anyway, that's all I can think of for now, if you were looking for recomendations. If not, well you got them anyway. XP
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John Irving is also good. His stuff deals with sexuality more than gender, and humanness in general. I think he might be your kinda author, but I'm not sure if you ever read anything by him. I'd say read "A Prayer for Owen Meany," "The World According to Garp," and "The Cider House Rules." Those are the ones I know for sure are good.
Anyway, that's all I can think of for now, if you were looking for recomendations. If not, well you got them anyway. XP