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[said_scarlett]

I do not believe in keeping things behind closed doors, I never have. Lucy sent me a PM, but has requested I not post it for reasons I don't know at this point. She felt she was in the right and that her points were valid, I don't understand why she would want to keep them private, rather than let everyone make up their own minds. So therefor I'm sorry, but you do not have verbatum what she sent me, only my responce. I apologize for this, I would like to post the entire corospodence because I feel that's only fair. With both the original PM and my responce, you're not relying on me, you're seeing only the facts and nothing else. As it is...

This is my responce in total

"I am warning you now, because I don't like keeping things private, I am posting this responce word for word in my LJ.

Becky did not do this, and had nothing to do with it, and I know that for a fact. I know that I lodged a few complaints with Jen about Harry's OOC behavior today, and I am sure other people did as well. There is nothing personal going on here that you aren't making yourself. It has nothing to do with *you*, it has to do with the game and your character. The mods made a desicion, and it's their decision to make. No player can *make* them do anything or control their actions. Harry was taken away from you because you played him OOCly, as far as I can tell. That's a legitimate reason.

Leaving the game because something happened that you don't like is childish and selfish. And quite frankly I am disgusted right now. This is immature and pointless, and the fact that you're blaming Becky makes it even worse.

And it shows what you think of the moderators and the game itself, if you're going to stalk off like this in a huff and blame another player for what you brought on yourself. It shows that you obviously don't care anyway, and in that case it's good to see you go. And niether does anyone else, because I don't see how this affects anyone other than you. It's not like you were kicked out, you were told to give up a character for legitimate reasons. A character that from what I can remember of you saying, you didn't like much anyway.

And I know for a fact that Jen has spoken to you about Harry's characterization before. As have I on occasion. Beyond that, I can't say.

But I will say this, and I don't care how you take it: I see where Harry's pissy, bitchy, over the top self centeredness comes from."

I am not a mean person, I am not a cruel person, I am not a pety person. I generally stay out of things. But I do not take shit like the above from anyone. And no, this is nothing personal. I am adding on this:

If anyone ever has a problem in a game, there are a thing called Moderators. Their job is not to be nice, their job is not to be your friend, their job is to do what they feel is best for the game. They are there to settle disputes, and keep things running smoothly. You have an issue in a game, you take it to the moderators. It is what they are there for. You do not slink around behind their backs, badmouth them, badmouth other players, claim you've been having problems for a really long time and that things have gotten out of hand. It isn't that hard. You send an email, a PM, whatever. You say 'hey, I'm sorry to bug you, but Im having a problem with so and so, I'd like to work it out'. This is after of course, you've actually talked to so and so.

Maybe I am jaded, but people who treat mods like they're just something to get a game started and cater to the whims of the players piss me off.