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said_scarlett) wrote2010-05-19 08:00 am
said_scarlett) wrote2010-05-19 08:00 am
Joy Joy Joy....
And now more detailed information!
Yesterday, my father informed me that he had been Planning Things. Last week, I think I mentioned that he and I had a blowout but made good points under the screaming and yelling. It mostly had to do with my future, and that manner of thing. In his eyes, it's high time I was married ('or whatever it is lesbians can do in this state') and settled down. And before anyone gets all 'wow, old fashioned of him!', he knows that this is what I want. I can't express how much I'm honestly looking forward to being a housewife. I've been independent. I've worked my ass off. I've supported my family/friends/whatever, and the idea of being taken care of myself is a very nice one at this point in my life. And she? Wants someone she can take care of. I think![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
husband_brother put it best yesterday when she said 'we're unconventionally traditional'. And we love that.
Anyway, my dad basically worked out a way to get us a place come August. He wants us to have a place rented by August 1st so we're not house-hunting when all the college students are doing the same. This was an absolute and total surprise. And I'll admit, when he first told me, I was really more 'wtf? THAT DOESN'T GIVE US ANY TIME!' and kind of freaking out. But after talking withhusband_brother, and really getting down solid plans, I'm pretty much just amazed and overjoyed.
And this also means that while she's away, I'll have plenty to do to occupy my hands! I've got a great deal of cleaning and packing to do!
I never thought I'd be in this position. It's nice to be wrong.
Yesterday, my father informed me that he had been Planning Things. Last week, I think I mentioned that he and I had a blowout but made good points under the screaming and yelling. It mostly had to do with my future, and that manner of thing. In his eyes, it's high time I was married ('or whatever it is lesbians can do in this state') and settled down. And before anyone gets all 'wow, old fashioned of him!', he knows that this is what I want. I can't express how much I'm honestly looking forward to being a housewife. I've been independent. I've worked my ass off. I've supported my family/friends/whatever, and the idea of being taken care of myself is a very nice one at this point in my life. And she? Wants someone she can take care of. I think
husband_brother put it best yesterday when she said 'we're unconventionally traditional'. And we love that. Anyway, my dad basically worked out a way to get us a place come August. He wants us to have a place rented by August 1st so we're not house-hunting when all the college students are doing the same. This was an absolute and total surprise. And I'll admit, when he first told me, I was really more 'wtf? THAT DOESN'T GIVE US ANY TIME!' and kind of freaking out. But after talking with
husband_brother, and really getting down solid plans, I'm pretty much just amazed and overjoyed. And this also means that while she's away, I'll have plenty to do to occupy my hands! I've got a great deal of cleaning and packing to do!
I never thought I'd be in this position. It's nice to be wrong.